شكرا على تعليقك يا جيمي!
As for my response, I have found that being a foreigner in Morocco (and Egypt, Syria, Jordan, Lebanon...) means a warm welcome. Of course, it's easy to get picked out of a crowd, but having Arabic up my sleeves is my greatest asset. When I (and you) speak in Arabic, a transition from being a guest to potential conversant takes place. But even when I botch my week-old darija, most people are willing to help me, الحمد لله.
You also asked about the role of gender in my daily life. I start by saying that gender roles, expectations, and, sadly, inequality plays into most everything I do in the US, at school, when I consume mass media, as I interact with friends, colleagues and students. Often, gender is taken for granted in Western culture, but once you start to see the ever present dominance of Patriarchy, and assumed gender boundaries in American (and other) culture(s), you can really see them everywhere. Of course, Arab culture has its own understanding of gender and gender roles, and just as naturally, that will effect the way I function in Morocco, just as a man visiting Morocco might have to adjust to a new set of expectation for his gender. For example, dominant American culture dictates that men should always maintain space between each other. Whereas in Morocco, men often walk with their arms linked, or holding hands.
You also mentioned your friends' reactions to the idea of travel in the Arab World; it's a reaction that I get from a great number of people, having lived in so many Arab countries. First of all, I like to remind those who are nervous about traveling to an Arab country that the world is rather large, and it is not so hard to avoid trouble. There are plenty of places in the US that I would avoid at certain times, or when certain events are going on. Of course, accidents happen, but they happen everywhere. In the years that I have spent happily living in Arab cultures, I have been very glad not to have stayed home.
And on the flip side, Moroccans have many ideas about Americans. For the most part though, and particularly given that I am able to express my personality, I'm processed as an individual, not as a generic, Hollywood American. الحمد لله